[Video 1] Making Change Happen
Aloha and welcome to the very first week and first video of the 7-week Art of Allowing preview series.
The most important question to answer in the beginning is, “How do you keep going when you don’t want to anymore.”
In this video you’ll find out to stay focused and make it all the way from where you are now to the end of a commitment you make. This video will give you the tools you need to not only make it through the next 6 weeks of this mini-life-change course, but how to actually use the next 6 weeks to change your life.
I really encourage you to take just a few moments each week and listen to the videos you’ll be receiving. If you do this you’ll be fairly unusual since most people love the idea of change, but don’t love it anymore when the moment arrives to actually stop what they have always done and start doing something new.
I’ll help you make this change if you are willing.
Just listen to the video each week, and then see how you can take just one idea or principle and apply it during the day. Better yet, choose to listen to the weekly video every day at the start or end of your day for the entire week and then see how you can apply the key concept to your daily life.
I’m really looking forward to hearing about how you’re using these videos during this next 7 weeks. Please let me know how it’s going in the comments below. Also feel free to ask me any questions at all.
With love and aloha,
Susan
Lasting change is difficult for most people, however, your point about gaining clarity about what that change means to you and focusing on the intention of the benefits of the change is foundational to making it happen.
Aloha Ed,
Actually thinking lasting change is hard for most people is only a belief and if we set our intent to allow change to be easy it certainly can be. Multi-layered our filter system is : ) and the gift is we get to experience it over and over again until we decide to decide what we REALLY want to experience.
With love and aloha,
Susan
You are so right, thinking that lasting change is easy is a key shift in our intent. Carlos Castaneda in this book, The Active Side of Infinity, indicated that ” Intent is a force that exists in the universe. When sorcerers beccon intent, it comes to them and sets up the path for attainment, which means the sorcerer’s always accomplish what they set out to do.” In this way and we are the sorcerers because our energy comes from our Source.
Believing this we can make change easy, but what about those that don’t know or don’t know that they don’t know?
Does projecting the belief, “what about those that don’t know or don’t know that they don’t know?” serve you or them? I think not, holding the intent that everyone can achieve personal freedom and leaving it at that creates a much more expansive energy.
Susan:
I couldn’t agree more with your point and agree that “holding the intent that everyone can achieve personal freedom and leaving it at that creates a much more expansive energy” in me, but I would suggest it does not mean more energy is created. Only by helping others realize their personal freedom can we add to the sum of energy. After self fulfillment, I would think our highest aim should be to help others. Your thoughts?
I think if you really look at your response you may see some judgment there. I used to think I came here to make the world a better place until I realized that was based on a judgment that there was something wrong with the world the way it is.
With love and aloha,
Susan
I see what you see and it means a great deal to me.
With sincere appreciation;
Ed
thank you susan for the video. I needed to hear what you said about forcing my way upstream of floating with the current. I have been working to consciously create my life– setting intentions and starting to feel overwhelmed and I cant do it. So thank you
Love
Penny
Thank you, Susan, for making these videos available to us free of charge. Sweet gift for the coming new year! Wonderful “small bites”. Sometimes I find the big bites are overwhelming so these little bites are just the right size for making small changes which can then lead to bigger ones. So often when we are in the process of making changes, working on ourselves, etc. we tend to dig and hunt for what isn’t right and what isn’t working so we can try to make changes to “fix” that. How about we dig and hunt for what is right and what is working and turn up the volume on that? Follows with what you said about how people often tell you what they don’t want instead of what they DO want. Happy dreaming to us all! Thanks again! Kim
Hi Susan,
but I am just a little unclear as to what that means. Could you expand on that a little bit?
Thank you so much for these videos! I am looking forward to all of them! I was very intrigued by your statement about changing your point of creation from your mind to your spirit. I want to do that
Thank you!
Lori
We can listen to our filter system filled with rules and limitations or we can begin to listen to our spirit filled with love and totally limitless. When we decide to choose listening to our spirit the choices we make are very different and we begin to change our point of creation.
I talk a lot about that throughout the Art of Allowing series.
With a big welcome to all the new members,
Susan
Aloha,
Currently my montra to my children is, “Tell me what you want, not what you don’t want.“
When I look at my own life I find what I want is a scary proposition. I find with everything I tell myself I really want there is a cost. The stories begin why it is not possible.
One of my life long dreams is to retire to Hawaii. In 2008 while visiting Oahu I thought, “What would I do if I moved here?” Feeling like I need a purpose.
Last Feburary I visited the Peace Garden in Captain Cook area and had a wonderful experience. I was reading The Fifth Agreement at the time.
In May I went to Josuah Tree in California and met the Ruiz family. Jose said if you are feeling nevous just jump.
I am nervous about introducing myself to you. I always had this picture of relationship of me hooking my wagon on someone elses horse. It hasn’t worked well for me so when I feel excited about meeting someone I watch my expectations and tend to be silent.
So focusing on now I just want to say hello and thank you for your teaching.
aloha
Expectations will create pilikia (trauma and drama) every time. Welcome .…
I often remind people that the internet is a wonderful place to practice not taking things personally. I had one person send me am angry email because I always ask for suggestions for podcast topics. I had never heard from the person before and they went on to say why should I send you a suggestion you NEVER respond to any of my emails. They got to be right, angry and disappointed.
So watch the videos and enjoy the journey.
With love,
Susan
Aloha and much mahalo for these videos I hear it differently every time I listen. I have been learning to play the ukulele for over a year now and my challenge is thinking that I am imposing my want on others I live with, who don’t find it as great as I do and I then won’t practice. How do you keep going when the blocks are close and large?
S.
Blocks are only as big and as real as we allow them to be. You can try to make others happy until you realize you can’t ever make anyone else happy. Then you can change what you can change — how you feel.
With love and aloha,
Susan
The BEAUTIFUL VISUALS make it so easy to watch and reminded me that we too can create BEAUTIFUL VISUALS in our minds to assist us in allowing the PLEASURE into our lives. I am tired of the pain. As simple as it may sound, I realize that what I do want is pleasure and what a fabulous way to start the New Year … I will invite it, embrace it and live it! Thank you, Susan.
Love, Roz
It is so true Rox, we can create beauty in our mind anytime we want and in the process allow that beauty to reflect into our life.
With love, aloha and a warm smile,
Susan
Aloha Susan~
I am a new face here and so blessed to of found you!
I have been feeling stuck for awhile now. I have always had a part of me that feels oh..I have to learn this attunement, or do this, or to become a healer I need to add this on my list, wheww..the list goes on..I am so spread out all over the place Susan, after awhile it becomes such a heavy feeling and I give up.
After awhile I believe one can’t help but to begin to loose their real focus and identity. I have allowed myself to become lost, sad, frustrated because my course of action runs in so many directions. You can’t imagine or (maybe you can), how many times I have sat down and asked myself, “Jeanine who are you?” or “What would you like to create in your life for more abundance?” I know now after viewing Video 1..“Making Change Happen” everything you shared made perfect sense. Oh by the way, your calm gentle tone you set is so healing~
I know being born an empath/sensitive person I take on others emotions, but am learning not to. I have had people come to me for advice all the time. I can be standing in line in a store where people in front turn around and chat. It’s funny in a way, because I end up hearing someone’s life story..
I love animals to..for myself they have been some of the most empowering and gentle teachers I have ever encountered. My heart breaks with sadness and anger (at times) if I witness someone hurting one.
See how I easly get off course..well, I am on a new journey now for me..Jeanine..which I am so thrilled about Susan.
I can’t wait to practice your tools daily. I do have a couple of questions to ask please..“is there anything I can do to ask myself, what it is I really want to do or achieve?” “Is it like peeling layers of an onion away, til your holding the last piece left that you go..awh ha, I found my answer?”
Susan, again thank you for all you are and all you do for all of us!
Have a beautiful blessed day~
Love and Gratitude,
Jeanine
I am glad you found us too. Welcome and enjoy the journey.
With lots of aloha,
Susan
Hi Susan, I’m from India and have been an energy healing practitioner for 3+ years now. In listening to you and in reading your writings, I find a lot of resonance and answers that I am seeking at this stage of my growth and experience in understanding the principles of the Universe. So, thank you!
The most resonating thought in this video was changing the point of creation from the mind to the Spirit. What a beautiful and simple way of saying something so meaningful.
Thanks for all you do & I look forward to the rest of the classes.
–Manav